tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post822222123827598046..comments2024-03-27T06:09:04.368-04:00Comments on Blogging, Near Philadelphia: [Negative] Magical ThinkingNancy Near Philadelphiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08803134620826322075noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-64373929970702411952008-07-09T14:25:00.000-04:002008-07-09T14:25:00.000-04:00I know what you're going through. I am dealing wit...I know what you're going through. I am dealing with my own stresses and fears about my own medical issues, so I can certainly understand your fears for Joe and what you both went through with his recent heart attack and the sudden death of Tim Russert from basically the same thing that Joe had. Take things one day at a time, one small step at a time, day by day. Remember that you have Joe by your side while Russert's family wasn't so fortunate. Count your blessings, day by day. I know, sounds trite, to be sure, but it's all I can think of saying.SallyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02866119113767406408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-66573695010220324932008-07-09T06:07:00.000-04:002008-07-09T06:07:00.000-04:00Actually, I think many of us feel the same way as ...Actually, I think many of us feel the same way as you do though maybe we haven't have hard situations thrown at us as you have these past couple months. I was thinking this morning that what with my husband's poor eating habits, 16 hour work days 6 days a week, next to zilch exercise that our days may be shorter together than we'd like. But he is an adult and my nagging only makes our hours together unpleasant. Night time is the worse... but God does is always on our side. I have my own mantra, "God is in control... God is in control."Tanyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00858446371419879296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-11958697365463664592008-07-08T18:25:00.000-04:002008-07-08T18:25:00.000-04:00I can so relate to this kind of fear.What a glorio...I can so relate to this kind of fear.<BR/><BR/>What a glorious celebration your 41st will be!!<BR/><BR/>Praying for you to not be fearful.<BR/><BR/>KarenKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16762386046518925477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-20983344612458801702008-07-08T15:54:00.000-04:002008-07-08T15:54:00.000-04:00Nancy, put your fear behind you and your trust whe...Nancy, put your fear behind you and your trust where it belongs... with God, he knows your fears and hears your every plea. You and Joe will have one huge and happy 41st anniversary!! Love abounds...Mrs. Goodneedlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07453388163219666450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-87358647902789917622008-07-08T15:31:00.000-04:002008-07-08T15:31:00.000-04:00Your name is legion. Greyhair's father passed on ...Your name is legion. Greyhair's father passed on at 55, presumably from "the Widowmaker" as no autopsy was done and it is not without a bit of fear that he approaches that milestone himself. Keep the faith, Sistah. You both will be fine!Ms. Janhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10804532085018616427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-81065075792282863372008-07-08T08:44:00.000-04:002008-07-08T08:44:00.000-04:00There has to be a happy medium between being reali...There has to be a happy medium between being realistic that we will pass away, on to be with Jesus, and having paralyzing fears. Live like you'll live forever but also like today is your last day.<BR/><BR/>I haven't had those fears for myself, but I have them for my children, especially for my son. It happened again the other night. I was sick with worry; I could feel it as I was "trying" to sleep. I was even too fearful to pray. I know that those worries accomplish nothing. It was a waste of time and fear hormones! And I wasted a time I could have prayed for the Peace the Passes Understanding.LoieJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01977264499770654307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-36722666007466855542008-07-08T03:23:00.000-04:002008-07-08T03:23:00.000-04:00They always say that 3-4am is the lowest point in ...They always say that 3-4am is the lowest point in the 24hrs. Apparently more people pass away at that sort of time of day than any other. So it's not surprising that you feel at your most worried and vulnerable in the quiet of the night when all around you are sleeping and you're unable to voice those fears and concerns without disturbing those sleeping around you. I've no doubt that just sharing your fears on this forum and receiving the support from the rest of the blogging community goes a little way to helping - but it will pass, it is still all part of your reaction to the monumental events which have taken over your life this past few weeks - again be gentle on yourself (((hugs)))Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352283065863856112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-34955189458630358982008-07-08T01:24:00.000-04:002008-07-08T01:24:00.000-04:00Maybe doing something symbolic to get rid of your ...Maybe doing something symbolic to get rid of your fears would help. Like writing them down then burying the paper in the yard or (safely) burning the paper or something like that. Begone bad thoughts! Just a suggestion. Stay strong, this too shall pass. Best wishes and peace to you.Gretchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00296184623527593046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-81549532973218848582008-07-08T00:50:00.000-04:002008-07-08T00:50:00.000-04:00I understand your fear, Nancy. 62 was the year I f...I understand your fear, Nancy. 62 was the year I feared. Daddy died at 62. I passed that hurdle some years back. Now my youngest brother is there. "My times are in his hands. Ps 31:15" Cling to that verse. Nothing can take you or DH too soon or too late. It will be at the right time because your times are in God's hands. None of us knows when, but we can rest because it is all in his loving, sovereign hands.<BR/>Peace to you!Lindahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08450792092084530798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-1101078755332826162008-07-07T22:35:00.000-04:002008-07-07T22:35:00.000-04:00Oh, those night time fears. Little worries are mon...Oh, those night time fears. Little worries are monumental in the dark of night, aren't they? But God has a big surprise for you....more than 40 years! He's just going to remind you once again who's in charge! ;-) <BR/><BR/>I will pray for peaceful times ahead for you.Ancestor Collectorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03127282622653034183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-50135036165644162752008-07-07T21:30:00.000-04:002008-07-07T21:30:00.000-04:00Nancy - Turn your fear over to God and trust in Hi...Nancy - Turn your fear over to God and trust in His will!Shoebox Dayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15921014375341639413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-29932402273970314872008-07-07T20:53:00.000-04:002008-07-07T20:53:00.000-04:00It is only the fool that isn't frightened. Becaus...It is only the fool that isn't frightened. Because now it has a label and it is called "fear" and we know what to do with words, labels, expressions. <BR/><BR/>We put them on the page. We share the fear, reach out to friends to help shoulder the label, and together we tell that Fear just how Big our God is.<BR/><BR/>My Word is Bigger than Your Word Love, *karendianne.*karendianne.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15557033346962825857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-25640892374091081742008-07-07T20:46:00.000-04:002008-07-07T20:46:00.000-04:00Just remember, "God works the Night Shift" - ALL N...Just remember, "God works the Night Shift" - ALL NIGHT, EVERY NIGHT. I love that little book by Ron Mehl, and one of his little lines that says "Heaven's Help Line is open 24 hours a day, and it's never answered by a nasal voiced part-time angel and you never get Voice Mail because God works that switchboard Himself - even on the Night Shift!"<BR/><BR/>My thoughts and prayers are with you - and I'm sure that there are many more of us whose prayers are calling the Help Line, and asking that He keep a Special Eye on you and yours, especially on the Night Shift!Bobbie Bentneedlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18395307988414655977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27429478.post-9919578134856197922008-07-07T20:19:00.000-04:002008-07-07T20:19:00.000-04:00Fear sneaks up on us in the dark and quiet. I pra...Fear sneaks up on us in the dark and quiet. I pray that you find a measure of peace in the next few weeks.<BR/><BR/>Best,<BR/>SuzanThree Birds Inspiredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10462935193167668508noreply@blogger.com