When Daily Observances Go Too Far

Honestly, I don't know how this got started. Or why. Or by whom.

I just wish it hadn't.

I've no idea how widespread this practice is. Does it extend to judges in courtrooms? To members of Congress? To surgeons? Waitstaff?

For many years I worked at a Quaker school and after that at a school for kids with autism. I used to wonder how the kids felt seeing their teachers in their 'jamas.

For the record, I was never, not even once, a participant. I didn't understand those who did participate. 

But if you, dear reader, choose to wear your flannels to work, I support your [dubious] choice and right to do so.

When I was in junior high school, back in the days when no one of any gender wore blue jeans to school, there would be the occasional "dress up day." The girls would be wearing Sunday dresses along with their nylon stockings (with garter belts) and worrying about getting "runs" in them. This was so long ago that knee-highs hadn't been invented yet. Or panty-hose. We looked forward to these days and by ninth grade, most of us had our first pairs of heels and argued with our parents about whether or not we would be allowed to wear them to school. Just this once. (We weren't.) I don't have any idea whether the teachers participated; I was too busy admiring my classmates and trying to avoid getting a "run." 

I never wanted to see any of my teachers in their pajamas and in my adult years, never wanted to see any of my coworkers in theirs. 

My friend Cathy and I both noticed back at the beginning of this year,  during the Winter That Has No End, that there were all kinds of days designated for special celebrations and pondered over our morning texts which ones we thought were worth observing. January 27, National Chocolate Cake Day, was determined worthy of being almost mandatory. In both of our households. The 24th of that month, Beer Can Appreciation Day, not so much. 

I was to a medical appointment today and also worked my shift at the food pantry. Joe grocery shopped and went to get a routine blood draw. Neither of us reported seeing anyone wearing their pajamas to work. And now we've discovered that April 16 is also Eggs Benedict Day. 

I wonder if he'd consider going out to Perkins for supper?


Comments

Anonymous said…
My PJs are barely presentable enough to stand on the front step and get the mail from the box, much less wear to work. The Boynton critters remind me of one of my favorites of her books, about going to bed on a boat, which I evidently read out loud enough to now have it running through my head ("The sun has set not long ago, now everybody goes below....").

Ceci
Quiltdivajulie said…
The schools here, particularly the non-public schools, have a pajama day for the younger kids towards the end of the school year. The kids absolutely love it. The early ed teachers wear colorful onesies (not necessarily pjs but something that fits the vibe) choses especially for that day (or those days). Me - not so much. I had enough trouble having to wear my pjs for overnight sleep studies in a medical setting.
Anonymous said…
I'm in my 70's and have never heard of Wear your PJ's to work or school or anywhere other than PJ party's that your girls have or to bed. I don't remember a dress up day at school either. Guess I lived in a boring world.
Juliann said…
I never liked teaching in my PJs but the kids did seem to love it. Now the schools seem to go with dress up days and spirit days.
Nann said…
As I read your post two things came to mind. Chase's Calendar of Annual Events was a reference collection staple in pre-Internet times. It listed commemorative days, weeks, and months. And, yes, PJs as daywear are a definite no. (So are bra straps as decorative accessories....gee, I almost typed "excessories.") PJ Day was sometimes a dress-up day at school, but for elementary-aged kids (along with "backwards day" and other quirky gimmicks). In high school one of the clubs had a Bermuda Day fundraiser. If you paid 25 cents you got a pin-on button that entitled you to wear Bermuda shorts that day. Everyone did it and the dress shop in town was mobbed with girls purchasing wool Bermuda shorts. I was very proud of repurposing a box-pleated plaid skirt with a hole in it. There was enough fabric to make a pair of Bermudas. Just a few years later not only had fashion changed (Bermudas were out) but more importantly dress codes had changed (girls could wear jeans and pants to school).
Janet O. said…
I'm glad none of that went on when I was in school. Never was allowed to wear jeans to school, except for "game days" (football and basketball only) in high school. Even my first two years of college were at a private school that did not allow women to wear jeans on campus.
Now it doesn't seem to matter what you wear in public school.