250

 

It's been a hard year-and-a-half for our country. Many of us are, for the first (or second) time in our lives, experiencing despair. Some friends have mentioned that they're having trouble with celebrating the 250th birthday.

I wasn't sure. Certainly I haven't been feeling my most patriotic  of late. We've even flown our flag upside down as a way of expressing our dismay. But still. Tradition is tradition.

Our little town Near Philadelphia is well-known in the area for being patriotic. Our annual Fourth of July celebration, we believe, is unequaled anywhere. Our sons who live in another state make the trek home every year, indoctrinating their own sons and daughter to the celebration.

It begins, as I've blogged before, with the children's program, where there are the traditional foot races as well as decorated bicycle and stroller competitions. The parade is in the late afternoon, but Andrew gets up around sunrise to claim a viewing spot on the old school grounds. The fireworks start around 8:30 or so, and in between the end of the parade and the start of the pyrotechnics, we host a major picnic. We've been doing this for 26 years, now, and people know what to bring and -- for the most part -- what to expect (Don't tell anybody, but this year Himself has painted a pickleball court on our back driveway!) 

This year, though, we've not really been feeling it. In addition to the general angst of our country, Joe and I have had a really difficult year personally, and so we've scaled back. There won't be as many people here as usual (about half of 'em coming from Virginia, however); we just needed a bit of a low-key affair. Often I make a couple of extra things for the buffet; this year I just wasn't thinking about it a whole lot.

Until this morning. And, of all things, Facebook to the rescue!

Because my feed a couple of hours ago shared a post from the local library. And they were featuring a whole bunch of 250th birthday cards drawn and colored by our elementary school students. I looked at every one. And was surprised by the tears that came into my eyes. The hope of these kids, that made the difference.

And now I'm feeling it.

The likes of Donald Trump, J.D. Vance, and Mitch McConnell aren't going to ruin our celebration. Mike Johnson and Robert Kennedy aren't going to rain on our parade. Our country has gone through terrible times before (in particular 1/20/17 through 1/20/21) and come back. We'll do it again.

So our peeps may or may not get to the children's program this year, as the youngest grandchild (already) is thirteen! But Andrew will greet the dawn and claim the spot, Susie will make the pasta-broccoli concoction that everyone loves, Marsha will devil the eggs yet again, and Himself will cook the brats/breasts/burgers like always. Me, well, I'm getting the ingredients for baked lima beans to round out the buffet. And making some cupcakes with red, white and blue sprinkles.

And, as always, before we eat we'll all go out onto the deck and sing -- at the top of our voices and each in her-or-his own key -- God Bless America, because we need that now, perhaps more than ever.

Comments

Cherie Moore said…
Thank you for this perspective. I’ve been in the same frame of mind as you and Himself so it was good to reach your conclusion.
Quiltdivajulie said…
I think a huge number of us are struggling to feel festive. That said, you are so right that we need it now more ever. Not much happens here aside from civic fireworks (TOO DARN HOT to be outside that long) and the neighbors who have their own evenings of colorful (noisy) fireworks (we watch them from our back porch where there's a pair of ceiling fans). We'll have the grand dog who despises fireworks so she'll have to stay indoors with her comfort sweater on. Wishing you a fun day!
yes these are difficult days but i believe in the efforts of our founding fathers who have redeemed our country time and time again...my prayer is for God to raise up leaders of integrity, experience, wisdom and compassion...the complete opposite of what we now experience...
Anonymous said…
Singing God Bless America at the top of your lungs before the meal? BEST TRADITION I HAVE EVER HEARD! Alas, I once again will miss it. I truly love our parade.
Anonymous said…
Our NY harbor cruise past the status of liberty and visit to independence hall and the liberty bell in Philadelphia on our trip a few days ago, reminded me of why I'm proud to be an American and that we can get thru this difficult time like all the rest, by the grace of God
Juliann said…
I am happy to hear that your traditions will be celebrated. We will be having a low key day here because the kids and grandkids are visiting the other grandparents this week but I do agree with not letting the blowhards ruin our day.