Scrambled Thoughts
I was pretty excited last summer when I discovered Bloglovin. I'd not used a reader prior to that, so I wasn't one of the grievers at the loss of Google Reader. Now I'm not as smitten, and actually am not sure I'm going to stay with Bloglovin.
I always used to have my favorite blogs listed in the side bar and arranged so that recently updated blogs would be at the tops of their columns. I liked having everything there in the one place. But my lists of blogs were growing and growing and soon that area was very, very full. Bloglovin seemed to be the right step.
I'm going to stop trying to write coherently and in an organized fashion now, and just list some of the thoughts I'm having:
I always used to have my favorite blogs listed in the side bar and arranged so that recently updated blogs would be at the tops of their columns. I liked having everything there in the one place. But my lists of blogs were growing and growing and soon that area was very, very full. Bloglovin seemed to be the right step.
I'm going to stop trying to write coherently and in an organized fashion now, and just list some of the thoughts I'm having:
- Since going with Bloglovin, I've added many, many, many more blogs to my stable. It didn't seem as messy to have a private list as it did to have it all on my side bar. It was just so easy to add and add and add . . . .
- When I check into Bloglovin, it isn't unusual to find I've got 60 blogs updated and waiting for me to read.
- I'm spending a lot more time reading blogs.
- Some of those multitudinous added blogs really need to be weeded out, and I don't know why I don't get around to doing that.
- I get peeved when they throw in an advertisement "blog."
- I'm so tired of book tours.
- I don't really want to have someone telling me each week about new lines of fabric and where I can buy them.
- I'm [fill in some word or another; I can't pinpoint the one I want] of blogs that have lots and lots of give-aways -- all provided by a vendor rather than the blogger herself.
A long-time favorite blogger has stopped blogging. I emailed her to see if she was okay. She replied that she was okay, that she had been spending too much time on the computer, and that the world of blogging had changed.
She's right. It has changed. I recognize that some folks blog as part of how they earn their living. And I know that some blogs are -- IMNSHO -- "blogs" because they are underwritten by fabric manufacturers. Some are so loaded with sponsors that I don't feel I know the writer at all.
The best blogs, to me, are the ones that perhaps have some quilting in them, but that's not all they have. They have bits and pieces of the blogger's life, her family, her thoughts, her frustrations, her theology, her amusements. She might provide an occasional give-away -- out of the goodness of her heart, not because some author has asked her to review a book (like how objective would the review be, anyway?) and then give away a copy. She might ask opinions on a quilt lay-out. She might share a new tool that she discovered on her own and suddenly wonders how she ever lived without it. She's a real person who wants to be known as a real person and who is even interested in knowing her readers as real people.
Here are some examples of some blogs that are -- again, in my opinion -- among the best ones out there. There's this one, and this one, and this one, just to pick three.
I'm thinking about that former blogger. I almost felt as though I knew her and hoped to meet up with her at a show sometime. She wrote a lovely blog. She was inspired by antique quilts, and I miss her.
This wasn't intended to be a rant, or a moo, or anything but just setting down some scrambled thoughts in the hope of coming to some clarity. Comments most welcome!!
Comments
Otherwise - I've recently culled my Bloglovin' list for many of the same reasons you listed (most rooted in time issues and 'purity' as you described it). I keep my reader list private so that no one has their feelings hurt if their name suddenly disappears from my sidebar. What I read is my business unless I choose to share it deliberately (sad story, not to be shared here, led to that privacy decision).
PLEASE don't decide to give up your blog - please!!
Last year everyone moved to Bloglovin but I decided to look at all the alternatives (as well as BLovin). I actually did not like BL at all and decided to go with Feedly. I have been using it for close to a year now with no regrets.
I do go and trim my blog list when the blogger becomes very commercial. It is just not for me. I do like my blogs to be primarily quilting but I do enjoy the human aspect, as you mentioned. I have divided my lists of blogs into categories and sometimes I just mark a whole category read without reading if the titles of the posts don't draw me to the content.
What I don't do is tell these people what is expected of THEIR blogs. Not that you are doing that! I have just heard nightmares of how some people will tell these bloggers (which I love reading) to stop talking about their families and start talking about quilting. That is just so inappropriate. I strongly believe that people write what they need to, either because their focus is on their business or their family or a bit of both. It's my choice if I want to read or not but it's not my place to dictate what is you want to do on your blog. Some people... Honestly!
nyway, I really need to get back to my own poor abandoned blog myself.
Thanks for the good post. I think it's time to do some trimming on my own list of blogs. I haven't done it in a while and I think it's ready.
In general blogging has changed. I feel like I am pretty old fashioned these days just doing blogging...
I'd only seen one of the blogs on your short list and have been there each morning for years but am glad to "meet" these two new blogs and the creative lights that shine there. Thanks!
Hugs!
I skip the blogs that do the book tours and hate those giveaways that make you 'tug on Superman's cape and spit into the wind' to get entries. In fact, I do not enter giveaways at all anymore.
Don't go anywhere, please. I enjoy reading what you write.
I have swapped with you for Miss Mellie and Ashley. I am putting those pieces together into Beau's quilt (what else could it be?), and when people ask, I say, well, I was in these swaps with my friend, Nancy, Near Philadelphia...
And I still chuckle when I note that you think Chicago is the west, when I myself just call it home.
Your blog greets me each morning at work when I need a moment or two of sanity. Thank you.
Kathleen S.
Normal, IL
Just thought I'd share...
Kris
I agree with most of what you say. I like blogs when I feel I get to know the author rather than feel like I'm reading an advertisement. There are a few bloggers who do advertise, yet still offer personal giveaways and nice tutorials. I don't mind if they earn their living by blogging if what is written rings true to me. How much more subjective can I get??
I use Feedly as my reader, and still miss Google Reader. :-(
Anyway, I love your blog and feel like I keep up with you by reading. Please continue no matter how your blog reading might change.