She doesn't leave blog comments. But she does send emails. She writes:
I am generally negligent in the area of regularly reading your blog, though I always enjoy it. But I have just come from it, and was shaken by your “Negative Magical Thinking” bit. There is one inaccuracy: Bob and I were married 41-1/2 years: June, 1959 – Jan. 2001. Don’t know whether this will help or hurt your fear, but I say “let it go.”
This is your Big Sister talking. Pay attention.